Zoey is my 14-year-old daughter. Her myriad of diagnoses has taught me patience, compassion, and a fundamental belief that we must meet people where they are, not where we expect them to be.
Navigating the special needs system as a parent means learning a new language: IEPs, IFSPs, ISPs, evaluation reports, accommodation matrices, service logs. It means attending meetings where your child is described in clinical terms that bear little resemblance to the person you know. It means advocating, relentlessly, for a child who cannot always advocate for herself.
It also means watching the world accelerate in ways that could either leave Zoey behind, or carry her forward, depending entirely on whether anyone bothers to build the bridge.